More than happy to help my friends with their problems. Glad to be there for them it just kind of sucks when things don’t turn out the way that you wish they would. It’s funny how your beat friends’ drama becomes a little bit of your own drama. You’re there side by side with her to let her know you have her back and to give her support. Sometimes I wish I could just resolve things with a click of a button but then life wouldn’t be the same If everything were so easy.
Today the girls came over cause one of my best was having some problems. They had to do with baby daddy. She loves him n wants to be with him now but he wants to just be friends. What I got from it she just needs to cool herself down and separate herself so that she can just be friends with him and not allow things to get so emotional between them. If he wonders why she isn’t talking to him as much then she can let hi know. It’s more so she can get her feelings under control but sadly he doesn’t understand. He specifically said he doesn’t want to be more than friends and that’s fine but neither can act exactly a friends…. U don’t mess around with ur friend if they are genuinely your friend! Anyways so she let’s him know that he doesn’t want to talk about anything else except the baby and she appreciates the relationship that they had. But I guess he took it as her takin away their son and him being completely cut out… But he was really making himself look like the victim saying she was the bad mom and trying to make her look bad and saying she was playing games. But damn people can get real complicated. Some real tough stuff.
